I feel like these are very different things. Going by the title of this article, telling your wife that she’s too fat for you to find attractive in bed is a dick move. It comes from a place of selfishness. Being concerned that her weight is reducing her quality of life and causing other health problems is something quite different. And if that’s the case, it’s still a sensitive topic that should be broached with kindness and compassion.

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